
I am working on my master's degree at Crown College. I'm currently enrolled in The Biblical Communicator. I am working on a project where I will distinguish between punishment and discipline.
I am under the conviction that these are separate issues. Punishment looks back. It is inflicting pain for something bad I have done. Basically, "
I am mad at you, therefore I want to hurt you." When I was only six years old I got myself into a big helping of trouble with my mother. Granted it was 1971 and times were much different than they are today, but I took off with friends after school to play basketball at our local youth hangout. I did not get home until well past supper. When I walked in the door my mom said, "
First you'll eat, then you get spanked, then you'll go to bed." The more she thought about it, the madder at me she got. Finally she said, "
Forget it, you'll get spanked then you're going to bed without supper." Please don't think ill of my mother, she was only 23 at the time, and doing the best she could, but she gives a good example of what I am talking about. This was punishment. I did wrong and I was gonna get the switch.
Discipline is so much different. It is looking at the future. God wants us to be like Him. He wants us to learn from the wrong that we have done. He wants us to grow. Hebrews 12 talks about discipline. Discipline is not pleasant, but necessary. It is God's form of correction with His children.
I remember when I was 12. I had a friend who wasn't the best influence to me. He wanted me to go to this huge picnic with a rough crowd. He encouraged me to fib to mom and tell her we were going shopping. Mom bought the lie and let me go. When I got home I was scorched with a sunburn. Mom said, "
How did you get a sunburn like that shopping?" I was caught. Mom grounded me from going outside to play for lying to her. She explained that I could have gotten hurt and no one would have known where I was. She disciplined me for my good.
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