Getting Volunteered

One of the dubious jobs that a pastor faces on a regular basis is being volunteered for things. For the most part, it is truly an honor. If you think about it, the reason that they are volunteering you is because they love you and are proud of you. They want to "show you off" to their friends and family, which is pretty cool!

I have people in my congregation who are active in civic clubs in the community. Lots of times when they need a speaker my name comes up. It is like, "Oh Pastor Jeff does such a fine job, he'd love to speak to our community club!" I am honored, truly I am. I am also busy, too busy!

I wish there were some tactful way to get out of these obligations. Sometimes I have a good reason because I am already busy, but to say that I just want some down time with the family does not always hold water. I get a , "I thought Friday was your day off" kind of remark.

If your reading this, please gracefully ask your pastor if he's looking for outside engagements before you mention his name in public. This way he can say yes or no and neither of you will look bad in doing so. Also, remember that he helped you out next time he calls you and asks for a favor!